Tuesday, August 7, 2012

An Unfair Disadvantage

The Guilford College Yankees, my 12 year old season. My Dad is directly behind Charlie
in the gold shirt. Can you guess which one is me?
 :)
I am sure that many of you watched (as I did) in awe Sunday night as Oscar Pistorius, a double leg amputee from South Africa, ran the 400 meters with the able-bodied runners of the world at the London Olympics.  It was an amazing moment, but even more amazing to me is the fact that many people consider his disability and the fact that he runs on "cheetah legs" to to be an unfair advantage to him.  Oscar himself says that he "has never considered his disability to be a disadvantage."  That statement brought to mind someone from my distant past who could surely identify.  His name was Charlie King.

When I was growing up in the Guilford College community just outside of Greensboro, NC, you could not help but know Charlie King.  He owned and operated a Texaco gas station and a fuel oil company.  He was a regular attender at Guilford Baptist Church.  He owned and operated an insurance company.  He was the manager of the Guilford College Yankees, a dynastic Little League team in the community.  He was often seen driving around in this custom-built vehicle.  Charlie was one of the pillars of Guilford College.  You see, he had an unfait disadvantage.  Charlie had been born with the use of his arms of his legs.  His wrists worked. He had some movement in his ankles and neck. But for the most part, Charlie, back in the 1960's, was supposed to be a burden on society.  He never got that memo.

I knew of Charlie from the age of about 6, but I really got to know him when he selected me to be a Yankee in the Little League player draft when I was 8.  I spent the next 5 summers learning baseball from a man who had never played.  But he knew it all.  So much of what I know about baseball and so much of my love for the game came from Coach King.  He turned me into a good player, with lots of help from my dad and the other coaches.  But baseball was not all he taught me.  He taught me so much about overcoming obstacles and ignoring pessimists.  The first time I ever water skied, Charlie was driving the boat.  A custom made made boat with a stick for a steering wheel that only Charlie could drive. He had simply never considered saying "I can't."  And it showed in every aspect of his life.

You see, Charlie King took his disability and turned it into an unfair disadvantage.  He was never able to take anything for granted.  He always had to work harder than able-bodied people who were trying to do the same things.  Like Oscar Pistorius, he inspired other to greatness, and also like Oscar his success brought criticism and petty jealousy.  Because of my relationship with Charlie, I have been a life-long believer in the power of positive thinking.  I have always believed all things are possible if you have faith.  I want to leave you with my one, signature enduring memory of Charlie.  There was nothing...NOTHING...I have ever witnessed quite the equal of an umpire missing a call, seeing and hearing Coach crank up his motorized wheelchair, and watching him drive from the dugout to home plate to "discuss" things with the ump.  The little man in the little chair could strike fear in their hearts.  It was an honor to play for him and an honor to be his friend.  I know Guilford College is not the the same without him.  My question to you all today is this- Who is it your life that has demonstrated that they have an unfair disadvantage?

Because of Jesus,


2 comments:

  1. Carl, when Reid was born the pediatrician that the hospital required we use while he was there told me that because he was premature he could be behind. Now, I understand why she told me that, but she should have worded things differently. I spent the first three months of his life worried he wouldn't meet milestones. BOY was I wrong. Many "white boys" don't do well when they are preemies, and some die. They jokingly call it wimpy white boy syndrome. I didn't get a wimpy white boy. I got a fighter and a tough kid. I finally asked his regular doctor (a family physician not a pediatrician) what I should do. She looked at me and said, he will be behind if you let him, otherwise he will be fine. Hold your expectations high and he will meet them. Well, I think he has exceeded them on many many occasions. He has been through a lot, but is an avid baseball fan and player. He knows stats of most current players and many greats from the past. He is an honor roll student and one of the most spectacular people I know. I often thank God that he saw fit to make ME his mother. It is an honor in the truest sense of the word!

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    1. Thanks for sharing, Marie. I know how proud you are of Reid. And I hope you know how proud I am of you...

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