Many churches spend a lot of time and money hiring professional youth pastors to join their staffs and try to convince teenagers to love the church. We (I was one of them for many years!) youth dudes & dudettes come on board and plan creative lessons, outrageous events and the occasional Egg & Armpit Relay. We do these things with one goal in mind- get teenagers to show up at church. We know that we want them to love Jesus, so maybe if we can get them in our building it will just happen. In the process, we are usually trying to subconsciously plant one or more of these thoughts in the minds of those reluctant church goers...
- Jesus is cool. With all of the crazy things we do we do in his name, he must be cool- right? We want them to think "this is not your mother's Jesus!" The thing is, Jesus has always been cool. We don't need to change his image to make him seem relevant. No one has ever been more relevant than Jesus!
- We are cool. We get it in our heads that if students are not yet ready to follow Jesus, then maybe they are ready to follow a groovy, gotee growing, guitar playing, flip-flop wearing surfer dude. In fact, if students are really drawn to us, it is not for any of those reasons. It is because they feel loved. More on that in a minute...
- Church is cool. With our rocking praise bands, 50 foot projection screens, high resolution videos and youth friendly sermons, many of our churches do everything they can to keep teenagers entertained. And this is appreciated, because for many years churches did everything they could to help them catch up on their sleep. But is a rock'n'roll worship service really enough to get teenagers to love the church? Can our churches "out-entertain" our society? Highly doubtful...
"My response is to get down on my knees before the Father, this magnificent Father who parcels out all heaven and earth. I ask him to strengthen you by his Spirit—not a brute strength but a glorious inner strength—that Christ will live in you as you open the door and invite him in. And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love, you'll be able to take in with all followers of Jesus the extravagant dimensions of Christ's love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God."
Because of Jesus,
Good golly, YES!!! You've said everything I've thought for years. Kids can be entertained anywhere. Where they end up staying is where they feel accepted and loved. Fake, phony connections won't do...Not for long anyway.
ReplyDeleteThanks for writing this. I hope youth pastors who really love Jesus and want to make disciples for Him will heed these words.
You're a blessing, my friend.
I am so glad this resonated with you, Angie. People may get tired of me harping on relationships as the key to ministry, but I will not be silenced! :)
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