Future HOF member Justin Overstreet gives Travis a lift! |
Travis was one of the guys I met during my interview process with WMUMC, and I remember him so well. He was wearing a t-shirt, baggy jeans with chains on them and had a colored hair dye in his shaggy do (red or blue I think?). He looked pretty radical, but I could tell from his questions and body-language that the youth group was important to him. Over the next 4 years we would share some incredible moments together. There were lots of highs and a couple of crash landings. Want to know about life with Travis? Here are a few stories...
- We were stopped at a gas station on our way to Myrtle Beach in 2002 when Travis revealed to me one of his goals in life. He wanted to "moon" someone in all 50 states. And a nun. He then informed me that while I was pumping gas he had crossed Georgia off the list...
- We shared a floor in a small room on our mission trip to Spartanburg, SC in 2003. Late one night we wrote a song together. I have no memory of what it was about or what any of the lyrics were, but I do know we called it Toxic Penguin. Travis and I shared a strange sense of humor.
- He called me one day to tell me he needed my help breaking up with his girlfriend, who was also a member of the youth group. They had already broken up once, and he was afraid she would leave the group if it happened again. While he was on his way over, she called and told me the exact same story. She was afraid he would quit. Bottom line was they both wanted to break-up. Easiest counselling session ever- and our friendship continued to grow.
- We had some of the deepest spiritual conversations I have ever had with a student- in part because Travis never felt obligated to agree with me. I always wanted our youth to find their own faith, not just parrot back what I believed. Travis struggled with his faith- and it was real.
- I cannot count the number of hours we spent together at Lee Garden's Chinese Restaurant, eating from the buffet and talking about life. Travis was somewhat of a tortured soul; a true artist at heart. He always felt he could come to me with anything, and I was so thankful for that. Even when things got bad for him at the church (because of a girl), our relationship stayed strong.
Travis in action. |
Hall of Fame youth group careers are not always an indicator of how life will go after graduation. Travis has not had an easy life, and with my issues he and I (like most of the students from the WMUMC years) are out of touch right now. But I know his heart, and it's a good one. And I know this- if you gave me a list of the hundreds of former students I have led over the nearly 30 years I spent in youth ministry and told me to pick some names to start a group, I would always pick Travis. To me, that just screams Hall of Fame. Welcome aboard, Travis. If I could remember any of Toxic Penguin I'd sing it to you...
Because of Jesus,
Good pick. Wish I knew him better.
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Zach Wehr
Thanks Zach! Cannot tell you how much it means to me to know you are reading along. You and your friends are just about ready to make your first appearances in my story. :)
ReplyDeleteHahaha sounds great! I try to read everyday but lately school has been getting the better of me. But hey, if you keep writing I'll keep reading.
ReplyDeleteI think every girl who ever attended Graceland had a crush on Travis. He was always so sweet. Good choice, CJ!
ReplyDeleteWOOO TRAVIS! I remember some pretty crazy things lol.... putting staples into a leather strap and whipping him with it... upon his request... >.>... i swear. i believe there were ping pong paddle spankins as well. LOL ah trav, grats! Lovwe you carl!
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