Erin Bay playing soccer in Kissimmee |
Chrissy Weaver, Powderpuff Football Star |
When I arrived at UC, I set out to do all of the things I had always done to get to know my youth. As you might know by now, Hinsdale was just different. Among the sports I attended to support students there were gymnastics, badminton and shuffleboard. Seriously. They seemed to thrive on the minor sports, winning state championships in events for which only a handful of schools in the state of Illinois fielded teams. Success was everything in Hinsdale. But I went, and I loved it all, and the youth loved me for being there. But it is hard to cheer for a badminton match. "Kill that birdie, kill tht birdie, GO GO!"
The great thing that happens when you are "there" is that you impact more than the students you already know. Their friends begin to ask who you are. You meet new kids and start new relationships. It is an amazing thing. Many of my best memories and answered prayers involve youth whose parents did not attend the churches I worked at, but came to us through relationships built away from the church buildings. It is important for those in any kind of ministry to remember that Jesus has no "church home." He was always out among the people. And that is where we need to be as well.
I miss all of those crazy events. I learned so much about things I didn't understand (except for soccer; I still don't get soccer!) and felt so much love from the students I supported. Many of those youth will remember each summer we would have a special program called One On One. They would schedule hour long appointments with me on specified days, and we would head out for a milk shake or a Blizzard. It was just another chance for me to get to know them away from the sometimes intimidating atmosphere of the church. I treasured those days- seven or eight straight hours of one on one time. The 9 AM got breakfast and the 12 noon got lunch. There were often battles for those slots, and I bet there would still be today. Looking back after some time away from ministry, there is little doubt in my mind that letting students know they were cared for and loved- by Jesus, by the church and by me- was indeed Job 1. I hope they remember those times with as much affection as I do...
Because of Jesus,
Those were the best!! I wonder hat horrific football team you were referring too... HAHAHA!!! We all know everyone came to those games to see that awesome marching band anyway!
ReplyDeleteYes, Lisa- your GHS teams were pretty awful, and your band was very good- just like many other school I visited. But there was nothing quite like footbal Friday nights at Trinity HS in NC or Waycross HS in GA. Some awesome nights.
ReplyDeleteCarl, you and I agree on a lot, but we part company on the subject of soccer! We're going to have to have a conversation about your inability/refusal to appreciate the world's greatest game!!!
ReplyDeleteHal, I look forward to that conversation! But I have to confess I did watch a fair amount of World Cup last summer...and enjoyed it. I'll burn for that...
ReplyDeleteCarl,
ReplyDeleteI always appreciated you coming to my wrestling matches. That is a prime example of your blog message today.
Jeremy
Thanks Jeremy, and as I have said before- your state championship match was the single most exciting sporting event I have ever seen in person. It was an honor to be there!
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